I'm on the edge of malfunctioning, haha. One more session and I'll be done with teaching for this year.

正如大家所说的，飞跃性的进步啊！

今天玩了将近５个小时，绿道滑了６次，Gallery（蓝绿道）滑了至少八次，ｐｏｔｅｎｔｉａｌ自我感觉已经可以到蓝道了，争取下次，呵呵

目前的主攻是ｐａｒａｌｌｅｌ　ｔｕｒｎ，主要是控制好重心转移和脚步姿态，还有频率频率频率！

另外一个近期目标是培养起老公对滑雪的热情

还有同时拿到暑假intern offer。我顺道在这里paranoid一下老公的paper们,早日accepted，呵呵

Nothing to count on but rp for right now...

Negotiation里面的integrative issues

有个女生写：

if two sisters want the orange and they come to a consensus that no one gets it, they should have negotiated integratively because they might have found that only one wanted the juice and the other only wanted the peel.

难道有人吃橘子皮吗？

"To be upset over what you don't have is to waste what you do have."

 

So draw a clear line between what you can have and what you can't have and don't cross the line!

 

 

when you expect someone to show some empathy (and you have good reason for this expectancy), he is just reacting like everything is going well. Right, this is because everything about himself is going well. Don't expect him to give a shit about your nuisance!

终于得着空闲的一天去滑雪了

本来打算上课的，结果觉得自己在缓坡上滑得挺好，既能wedge turn又能parallel turn就决定skip lesson直接上绿道，结果发现跟想象的还是有很大差别啊！不过还是survive两趟绿道，然后髋关节、膝关节、踝关节都快散架了，赶紧撤退

虽然对化学还是蛮有热情的，但是毕竟不是teenager的年龄可以无所顾忌的try everything stimulating了

不过还是挺好的，第一增加了活动量促进了血液循环，第二把自己搞得很累，晚上可以大肆的美美的睡上一个死死的觉。好像就是突然打破了以往routine的节奏，或者说生活得更有激情了吧

无论多大年纪，人是始终需要激情的！

上回我提到的超级大美女考完第一次quiz就退课了，ft，我照片还没到手呢

估计是美女觉得自己长得漂亮，稍微用点功就能得高分了？俺枉自揣度一把。她那天说有事我还专门花了一个小时给她一个人监考，还竟然吭都没吭就把课退了。不过这种超级大美女碰到俺手下确实不如师从一糟老头或者年轻荷尔蒙偏高的男老师来的幸运

今天让他们写了有关我的teaching evaluation, informal的那种，不记名。搞笑的是有两个男生（一个老美一个abc，他俩的quiz也都没考好呢）写的全是positive的话而且署上了自己的名字，呵呵，这是俺比较欣赏的，会做人啊！