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December 11 The Way We Were这部被friends和sex and the city的女主人翁奉为经典之作的电影,没有想象得那样,可能是因为第一遍没太看懂吧,英语听力还是有待提高。。。
It tells the story of an idealistic young woman, Katie (Barbra Streisand), who falls in love with Hubbell (Robert Redford), while they are college students in the 1930s. They have immense differences. She is a Marxist, with strong anti-war opinions, and he is a laid-back troublemaker. She is drawn to him because of his writing, which she finds fascinating and captivating. He admires her conviction and her determination as well as her belief in the ability to change and influence those around her. Years go by and they meet again. Now she works in a radio station and he, having fought in World War II, is settling into a conventional WASP lifestyle. They fall in love and get married, despite their political differences. Katie is intolerant of the political jokes Hubbell's good friends make. She finds them insensitive and ignorant, treating politics as a joke. Katie finds Hubbell's writing brilliant, but is displeased when Hubbell seeks a job as a screenwriter in Hollywood. She believes it to be a compromising waste of his talent. Despite Katie's growing frustration, they move to California. Hubbell becomes a successful playwright, but Katie's political views remain strong. Even though Katie is pregnant with their child, Hubbell becomes involved in an affair with an actress on the film set, and Katie and Hubbell finally decide to part. Also, Katie comes to see that Hubbell is not the person she idealized and admired when she fell in love with him. While he is a talented writer, he is unable to take his gift seriously or to discipline and dedicate himself to exploring his talent. Instead, he always chooses to take the easiest and the simplest way out — whether it is cheating in his marriage or writing predictable stories for sitcoms. Katie comes to realize that Hubbell will never challenge himself but will continue to seek what comes easiest to him or is essentially handed to him by life. Katie retains custody of their daughter Rachel and moves to New York City. Katie remarries and continues to champion her political views while dedicating her life to the causes of disarmament and world peace. Several years after their divorce, Katie accidentally meets Hubbell again in New York. Hubbell, who is with a beautiful woman who exemplifies the WASP ideal, is now writing for a popular sitcom as one of a group of hired and nameless writers. Katie, though, has remained faithful to who she is — a person who believes in the power of politics to change the world for the betterment of people. In the movie's final scene, Hubbell asks Katie about their daughter Rachel. Katie tells him that Rachel is beautiful and he should come see her. Hubbell answers that he can't. The tears in his eyes make it clear that the loss of Katie and the life he had with her is a painful experience for him. He was at his best when he was with her, and no one will ever believe in him or see as much promise in him as Katie once did. Both Katie and Hubbell will always remember with poignancy "the way they were". December 01 seattle is snowing todayhuge snow flakes. I caught a cold, too. If only tomorrow's classes are cancelled! 35岁之前必须做好的10件事情 35岁是青春的后期,35岁以后是收获的季节,如果你没有资格说这句话,你将会憎恨自己。
所以在35岁以前,在烂漫蓬勃的青春年华里,你最好把下面十件事做好! 第一,学会本行业所需要的一切知识并有所发展。已故零件大王布鲁丹在他35岁时,已经成为零件行业的领袖,并且组建了年收入达千万美元的海湾与西部工业公司。每个人在年轻时都可能有过彻夜不眠、刻苦攻读,这在20岁甚或30岁都没有问题,但到了35岁,就不应该再为学习基本技能而大伤脑筋了。35岁之前是一个人从事原始积累的阶段,35岁之后就应该勃发了。 //熬夜不同意 第二,养成个人风格。在35岁以前,找出你所喜欢的,不论是衣着或是爱好,哪怕是与众不同的小习惯也好。20岁、30岁时你可以不断尝试、不断改变,但是到了35岁,你便要明确地建立个人风格。一位男士或女士在事业中途改变自己的形象,就会让人觉得很不可靠。你喜欢穿西装吗?好!就把西装当作你的商标吧!办公桌上摆些鲜花会令你工作更有效率吗?那就每天都摆些鲜花吧! //个人风格不等于刻意标榜阿
第三,在感情生活方面平和安定。在攀登事业的高峰时,如果私人生活不愉快,陷入感情危机,对你会产生很大的干扰,甚至会逐渐令你对别的事物失去兴趣。那些在35岁之前私人生活已经平和安定的人,一般都比生活动荡不安的人有更大的机会获得成功。因此,如果你想结束一段没有结果的恋情,或者你想和女友结婚,那就赶快行动吧,免得把问题拖到生命的第35个春秋。在35岁以后,你应该专注地看着你对事业的投资开始获利。 //这个很同意
第四,明白自己的短处。承认有些事情你的确做不好,或者不愿做。如果你讨厌数字而喜欢创作,那就不要因为待遇高或顺从别人的期望而强迫自己做数字工作。在35岁之前,一定要投入你所喜爱、所擅长的那种工作。否则,35岁之后必然会有一段郁郁不乐的日子。而且,真正的成功可能因为活力的消退而丧失。 第五,知道自己的长处。你应该知道自己擅长什么,并且清楚你所喜欢做而又做得比别人好的事情。不管你目前担任什么样的角色,知道自己的长处对成功都很重要。 第六,储备辞职另谋生路的钱。在这个多变的职业世界里,你也许不会永远在一个地方工作,或者永远在一个位置上淋漓尽致地发挥自己,当你感到无法施展时,你很可能会想到辞职,或者开辟第二职业,如果你事先储蓄了足够的钱,你便有了一个安全的后盾。 //不管干嘛都得存钱阿
第七,建立人际关系网。如果到了35岁你仍未建立起牢固的人际关系网,那你就有麻烦了。这个人际关系网包括你的朋友、亲人,最低限度包括所有可以互相帮助的人。这些人有的是你的同事,有的受过你的恩惠,有的你倾听过他们的问题,有的你和他有着相同的爱好。人际关系网不是一朝一夕就能建立起来的,它需要几年甚至十几年的培养。一个人在事业上、生活上的成功其实如同一个政党的成功,你要有许多人散布在适当的地方,你可以依赖他们,他们也可以依赖你。 第八,学会授权他人。许多人不肯或不能这样做,因此始终被钉在从属的职位上。授权他人是成功的一半,一个事无巨细,不能将工作授权别人的人,注定会遇到极大的障碍。到了35岁,你最好已成为这方面的专家。换言之,你懂得挑选合适的人并信任他们。 第九,学会在什么时候三缄其口。因说话不小心而自毁前程的人,比因为任何其他原因丧失成功的人都多。要学会保持沉默而且看起来机智——别人自然以为你知道的比实际还多。别讲别人的闲话,别谈论你自己的大计,守口如瓶所赢得的声誉,远比讲人闲话所带来的东西更加珍贵。你在事业上越成功,这一点就越重要。 //这点不能再同意了 第十,对人要忠诚。如果你到了35岁仍未能建立起坚如磐石的忠诚信誉,这一缺点将会困扰你一生。不忠诚的恶名必然会使你在事业上到处不受欢迎。你不能靠暗箭伤人爬到事业的顶峰,而要靠在早期树立起来的真诚刚直和不可动摇的声誉。35岁以前,忠诚只是投资;35岁以后,你会作为一个可以信赖的人收到忠诚的回报。 |
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